Use PHP to sort the results after the query (untested):
$product_ids = array( 3624, 1298, 430, 5629, 765 );
$query = new WP_Query( array(
'meta_query' => array(
'relation' => 'AND',
array(
'key' => 'product_id',
'value' => $product_ids,
'compare' => 'IN',
),
),
) );
$posts_by_product_id = array();
$sorted_posts = array();
if ( $query->have_posts() ) {
foreach ( $query->posts as $post ) {
$product_id = get_post_meta( $post->ID, 'product_id', true );
$posts_by_product_id[ $product_id ] = $post;
}
foreach ( $product_ids as $product_id ) {
if ( ! array_key_exists( $product_id, $posts_by_product_id ) ) {
continue;
}
$sorted_posts = $posts_by_product_id[ $product_id ];
}
$query->posts = $sorted_posts;
}
The $query->posts
property will contain the found posts, ordered by product ID to match the order in $product_ids
.