Is it possible to make an admin column in the media library that will indicate whether or not an image is used somewhere as a 'featured image'?
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or something similar to check whether there's a featured image, and at that point save a custom "featured image" taxonomy just set to "true" for that image ID. That way you could do a tax query in the Media Library, which would perform much faster.