update
$args = array(
'meta_key' => 'event_date_start_id',
'category_name' => 'private',
'order' => 'ASC',
'orderby' => 'meta_value',
'meta_query' => array(
'relation' => 'OR',
array(
//event_date_start_id greater or equal to $since
'key' => 'bjab_event_date_start_id',
'value' => $since,
'type' => 'numeric',
'compare' => '>='
),
array(
//event_date_end_id greater or equal to $since
//and event_date_start_id lower than $since
// and event_date_start_id != ""
'relation' => 'AND',
array(
'key' => 'bjab_event_date_end_id',
'value' => $since,
'type' => 'numeric',
'compare' => '>='
),
array(
'key' => 'bjab_event_date_end_id',
'compare' => 'NOT EXISTS'
)
)
)
);