I don't think there is any way of knowing something x is orginated from some plugin x. If both plugins do not offer any administrative controls for setting from and reply to address, you might want to hack the plugin files code sending email.
if it is using wp_mail function to send email, you can pass your headers as below before wp_mail,
$headers = 'From: My Name <myname@mydomain.com>' . "\r\n";
wp_mail('test@test.com', 'subject', 'message', $headers);
or you can have filter for from address
add_filter( 'wp_mail_from', 'my_mail_from' );
function my_mail_from( $email )
{
return 'myemail@mydomain.com';
}
wp_mail('test@test.com', 'subject', 'message');
remove_filter( 'wp_mail_from', 'my_mail_from' );